Constructive Dialogue: Videos

A concise list of videos ranging from less than 1–10 minutes that explain how to have constructive conversations with others. The videos are directed at a general audience without previous exposure to the concept of “constructive dialogue.”

“Civil Discourse” (0:47) by Mark Peterson, UCLA

The U.S. is divided politically, with many Americans avoiding discussing politics with family and friends. People do not want to let their opinions jeopardize social events and connections. However, there are ways to talk politics while remaining civil. Conversations can be productive and positive following these tips.

“How to Have Difficult Conversations – Eliminating Defense Mechanisms” (5:22) by Urth

Explores why some conversations are tough and strategies to promote productive dialogue with friends, family, and strangers.

“[I want] to Teach you How to Talk to People you Disagree With” (4:07) by Dylan Marron

Host of “Conversations with People Who Hate Me”, calls the people who write him negative comments, taking contentious online conversations and moving them offline. The result is often awkward, but always fascinating.

“How to have Constructive Conversations – TED Talk” (10:40) by Julia Dhar

“We need to figure out how we go into conversations not looking for the victory, but the progress” – This practical talk provides three essential features of productive disagreements grounded in curiosity and purpose. Fostering constructive conversations that sharpen your argument and strengthen your relationships.